| Well its March can you believe it! The big shamrock celebration is right around the corner as is March madness. This past week I had several inquiries about special need trusts how to set them up and what you can do. I touched upon this a while ago and thought I would send you some more information. You’ve been a responsible planner for your family’s future, especially your child with special needs. You’ve met with an attorney, set up a Supplemental or Special Needs Trust and you can breathe a sigh of relief. Your work is done, right? Wrong. ___________________________________________________________ Where is DeDe? This past weekend she spoke at a wonderful Parent’s group in Seal Beach at Grace Community Church. Next Tuesday March 8th she will speaking to the MOPS of First Christian Church in Huntington Beach. If you would like for her to come and conduct a Kids Protection Workshop for your group, give her a call, no group is too small. She enjoys educating all. | ||||||
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Wednesday, March 2, 2011
When It Comes To A Supplemental Needs Trust, Out of Sight Should Never Be Out of Minds
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Saving Your Heirs From Themselves
| I hope your February is going well. Lots of you have had days off and are enjoying some of the cold weather activities such as hitting the slopes, or sledding all fun stuff! But I do hope you get your plan in place and protect your loved ones from the “what if” Like I said last week, I went and purchased some more gift certificates for Vintage Steak house in San Juan Capistrano, the old vintage pull carts, I only have a couple left so give me a call. Its a wonderful restaurant that would make for a great date night. All you have to do is make your appointment, mention the romantic package and I will have a certificate waiting for you! So I have had a few inquiries this past week about protecting those kids that spend too much money… okay, there are some things you can do. You’ve worked hard for your money… You’ve made some good investments and lived well within your means… You want to leave as much as possible to your heirs but… That grandson has a serious snowboarding addiction… Or maybe your daughter is just crazy about her new husband and the guy hasn’t had a steady job since he mowed yards in eighth grade… You don’t want to disinherit them but how do you save them from themselves and keep them squandering your hard-earned wealth? One option is what’s known as a spendthrift trust. | ||||||
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Thursday, February 17, 2011
The Kindness of Being Prepared
| Hope your valentine’s was a good one!! February is such a fun month, because you can keep the love of family and friends on your mind and continue to celebrate the entire month. In fact I had such an overwhelming response from my Date Night, that I went ahead an purchased more gift certificates for those who have not called. So I am extending the Valentine Date night to beyond the 10 peeps that already called. If you didn’t get my Date Night Valentine, simply click HEREfor details. | ||||||
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Well I am continuing the conversation regarding the aging process and how you can assist those elderly family members because it can be so overwhelming. Nursing homes… Assisted living centers… At-home assistance… These are all options for medical care when we age and can no longer care for ourselves alone. But there is one more approach for medical care for those facing a terminal illness - hospice care. More than just a place to receive medical care for terminally ill patients, hospice really describes an approach to medical care for patients nearing the end of life. The prospect of facing a terminal illness can be truly daunting for both you and your family members. Planning ahead for hospice care and making your wishes known can be one of the kindest things you can do for your family. Blessings, | ||||||
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Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Questions to Ask About Nursing Home Care
| Americans are living longer than ever, and with that increased longevity comes some tough questions. My family has been dealing with some of these tough questions, for the past couple of months, especially my mom! As I mentioned in December my grandmother celebrated her 90th birthday! With a very sharp mind, she still lives at home with her special needs daughter. Well, she fell and fractured her ankle and was in the hospital and a rehabilitation facility for almost 2 months. Fortunately, she is back in her home, but the past couple of months have been tough with lots of decisions that have had to be made, research for the unknown, exploration of all options. She has had angels as friends that have helped out – My parents drove ½ way across the country to pick up and take care of my Aunt, who cannot be left alone. So she has been staying with my parents, enjoying the Sunshine of Palm Desert. So the short term has been taken care of but we have been faced with lots of long term issues some are still pending. Right now, my parents have decided that the best place for her is in her own home. But we have had to make lots of inquires to provide her with the best care possible, because she needs care 24/ 7. So, I know, making the decision to place a loved one in a nursing home can be one of the hardest decisions you’ll ever make. And they definitely do not want to go and leave their home. The more quickly you have to make that decision, the more room there will be for making a bad decision. The best thing you can do is plan ahead. Anticipate that, at some point, your loved one will need nursing home care. To help you make the right decision in choosing a nursing home, here are a few questions to ask yourself ahead of time. And of course I am of the belief that you need to plan while you are young and healthy. Blessings, | ||||||
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Thursday, February 3, 2011
Happy February!
| My husband and I enjoyed a great weekend in Big Bear. One day it was bright and sunny the next was flurry with snowflakes as we hit the ski slopes! We enjoyed the time with our friends. Its been busy since we returned. There are a few long weekends this month and of course love is in the air as we prepare for Valentine’s. Life and love can get complicated when you are young and have a growing family. Well regardless, life can become complicated and there are various ways to easy the stress of life, especially when it comes to money. It’s hard to go from handling your money as a single person to handling money as a couple... When you add children to the mix, it gets even tougher... Birthday parties, karate lessons, family vacations... All the things we want our children to have can put a pinch on the family budget. If you have a young family, you need to be smart about your finances to make sure your family is taken care of. I hope you find some of these tips beneficial. Blessings, | ||||||
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Wednesday, January 26, 2011
Are Fees Robbing Your 401(k)?
| Wow January is almost over! It has been a busy month. I have been meeting with clients and protecting their families. Along with that I have invested in a new server and additional Security Protection for my clients. I am happy to announce I just have to put in a few passwords and press a couple of buttons. My IT professional Doug Harvey has been fantastic! There has been a few kinks but he has been fabulous in setting it up. I will let you know a little bit more about his services, but for now I highly recommend him. I hope you are organizing your legal and financial house! I know there is so much to do in the new year but you just have to keep checking off your list. Here is a bit of information about 401 (k)’s I hope you find interesting. If you need a referral I have several that I can recommend. Love to hear from you soon. I will be in Big Bear this week enjoying some cool weather and maybe a little bit of skiing or at least playing in the snow. Blessings, | ||||||
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Saturday, January 15, 2011
Interviewing Your Financial Planner
| Hope your year is kicking off with lots of good things and you are starting your New Year Resolutions – Of course its time to get the financial and legal house in order. Here is a little bit of information to start putting your financial house in order. With all the bad news about crooked investment counselors and dishonest financial planners, you may be more than a little hesitant to trust someone with your life savings. If you want to hire a professional to handle your portfolio, you need to do what folks in the legal trade call “due diligence”. You need to do your homework and interview the planners you’re considering. When choosing a financial planner, ask them the following questions to get a good feel for not only their level of expertise, but their ethics as well. And remember, you need to feel comfortable with the person you are going to allow to invest your money. I have several Financial Planners that I can recommend based on what you are looking for. This is not an all inclusive list but a few things that you should consider. I hope to see you soon and assist with your legal house and protecting your loved ones. Blessings, | ||||||
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